A celebrated, New York Times best-selling author of “Hidden Potential” and “Think Again” Adam Grant, once shared a profound encounter that challenged his assumptions about giftedness.
He met the father of two children enrolled in a prestigious New York school for “gifted” students. Curious, he asked the kids directly,
“Can you juggle? Play the piano? Win a spelling bee? What makes you gifted?”

They simply laughed. They couldn’t name it.

Months later, Adam discovered that their gifts were quiet, profound emotional intelligence and mathematical intuition. Their brilliance was steady, luminous, and natural.

This story illuminates a fundamental truth for servant leaders: our greatest responsibility is to help others discover, articulate, and activate their inherent gifts. When we create environments where people understand what they're naturally excellent at and deeply passionate about, we unlock authentic purpose, sustainable performance, and profound fulfillment.

The Threshold of Awareness

There comes a moment when external achievement no longer fills the internal space.
You sense that what once validated you now merely occupies you.
This is the pivotal point of awakening.

The space between what you do and who you are begins to narrow, and that’s where your light leaks in.
This is your personal gateway, the passage between performance and presence.

When you step through it, you stop chasing success and begin embodying coherence.
You realize that brilliance isn’t something you prove; it’s something you permit.

Brilliance Defined

At CG Excellence, we define brilliance as the full, unhindered expression of your authentic energy. The way your presence transforms a space without effort.

Brilliance can look like precision, empathy, creativity, courage, or stillness.

Forms of brilliance:

Natural Strengths: Abilities that feel effortless and energizing
Developed Talents: Skills honed through practice that bring satisfaction
Authentic Passions: Activities that generate intrinsic motivation and joy
Unique Perspectives: Ways of seeing and solving that only you bring

Examples:

Creative Expression: Visual arts, storytelling, musical ability, innovative problem-solving
Relational Intelligence: Active listening, empathetic presence, conflict transformation, community-building
Communication Mastery: Public speaking, written clarity, teaching, persuasive advocacy
Analytical Capacity: Strategic thinking, research excellence, pattern recognition, data synthesis
Technical Expertise: Engineering, design, coding, systems optimization

Some of the most transformative gifts, like the emotional intelligence of Adam’s "gifted" children who operate quietly, shape culture and connection in ways that metrics often miss.

Igniting Your Brilliance Matters

***Excellence is your light remembered and expressed.***
- *CG Excellence*

Fulfillment Over Validation
When you live from your brilliance, external approval loses its grip. You begin to move from meaning, not metrics.
Energy and Well-Being
Working from your natural flow conserves energy. You stop pushing against yourself and begin amplifying what already works.
Authentic Leadership
Teams mirror the energy of their leader. When you model alignment and calm confidence, you create cultures that thrive on trust rather than tension.
Sustainable Excellence
Brilliance is renewable. When you serve from authenticity, your contribution expands rather than depletes.

5. Joy and Flow
Joy is the echo of alignment. Working in your zone of brilliance, you create impact and peace simultaneously.

The Servant Leader’s Role

Servant leaders are light-sharers.
Help others see, name, and own their brilliance, especially when they can’t yet see it themselves:

1. Cultivate Self-Reflection Create rhythms and rituals that invite introspection. Ask: What activities make you lose track of time? When do you feel most alive? What do others consistently ask for your help with?

2. Offer Generous Feedback As a servant leader, your observations carry weight. Regularly name the strengths you see in others, specifically and sincerely. Sometimes people need permission to claim their personal gifts.

3. Encourage Experimentation Build cultures where trying new things is celebrated, not penalized. Brilliance is often revealed through exploration, iteration, and even "failure." Provide stretch assignments, cross-functional projects, and learning opportunities.

4. Honor Diverse Expressions Resist narrow definitions of excellence. The quiet organizer, the empathetic listener, the person who brings levity, these are forms of brilliance as well. Broaden your aperture for what "gifted" looks like.

To lead this way is to replace judgment with curiosity and pressure with permission.

CG Excellence Reflection

Your personal signature shines when who you are and what you do become one fluent expression.

Ask yourself:

Where am I dimming to make others comfortable?
What have I mistaken for humility that’s really self-denial?
What would change if I stopped managing perception and started radiating truth?

Aristotle said, “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is but a habit.”
At CG Excellence, we take that one step further:

Excellence is your light remembered and expressed.

Igniting your brilliance makes you available, to your purpose, your team, and yourself.

When you embody your light, the world simply adjusts to the glow.

If this reflection resonated with you, explore how our CG Excellence Training customized training videos help organizations cultivate brilliance from the inside out. Where personal awareness fuels professional excellence.

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Yours in service,

Christine

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